pepatah melayu ada mengatakan" kerana mulut badan binasa"
yes i agree with that.sometimes kita tak sedar 1 perkataan boleh menyakiti hati semua,
boleh putus kawan,boleh buat orang benci dekat kita
but sometimes we need to speak out what u want to say.
orang kata bila sudah pendam lagi sakit..
people always say that silence is golden,better u keep silence or whatever
but for me there is a good side and bad side to everything.
so u dont expect that you can find a perfect theory that will be suitable for everybody.
is so unfair.
everybody has his own opinion and every saying has its value.
but if when the situation need u to be silent,so just keep silence
and sometimes you shouldn't keep silence just as you said, if u keep silence u will lose something.
for me keep on not just depends on your situation and how u control it by yourself
so now when i wake up early morning i NEED and i MUST to reminds myself before i make some decision and take action i should keep silence first and think more and prepare more.
in simple words
be silent when silence is needed, speak out when u need to.
bak kata kamu:
" lebih baik senyap dari berkata-kata.buat apa nak sakitkan hati kita sendiri dan hati orang"..
*senyum*
nabi SAW bersabda:
"mahukah kamu aku khabarkan kepadamu,
dengan semudah-mudah ibadat dan
sesenang-senang atas tubuh,
ialah diam dan baik perangainya"..
(riwayat ibnu abiddunya dari safwan bin salim)
